Happy Heavenly Birthday, Grandma

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Today we mark your birthday, ninety-one candles bright,

But Heaven holds the glow now, wrapped in softer light.

We miss your laugh, your steady hands, your stories warm and true,

Yet feel you close in quiet ways, in all we say and do.


The years you lived were gifts you gave so freely, day by day,

With love stitched into every life you helped to shape and sway.

Though tears may fall, they mingle with the smiles we defend,

For love like yours doesn’t finish, it simply learns to bend.


So happy birthday, Grandma, beyond the stars above,

Your first one spent in Heaven, held in endless love.


©️ Wonderland Wanderess 2026

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